How to tell if a guy is gay or trans

LGBTQIA Resource Center Glossary

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The terms and definitions below are always evolving, transforming and often mean unlike things to different people. They are provided below as a starting signal for discussion and sympathetic. This Glossary has been collectively built and created by the staff members of the LGBTQIA Resource Center since the first 2000s.

These are not universal definitions. This glossary is provided to help present others a more thorough but not entirely comprehensive understanding of the significance of these terms. You may even consider asking someone what they represent when they use a term, especially when they use it to illustrate their identity. Ultimately it is most important that each individual define themselves for themselves and therefore also define a designation for themselves.

 

“If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive.” -Audre Lorde

This glossary contains terms, such as ableism and disability, that may not be considered directly related to identities of sexuality or gender. These terms are essential to acknowledge as part of our mission to challenge all forms of oppress

Understanding Nonbinary People: How to Be Respectful and Supportive

Nonbinary Defined

Most people – including most genderqueer people – are either male or female. But some people don't neatly fit into the categories of "man" or "woman," or “male” or “female.” For example, some people have a gender that blends elements of existence a man or a woman, or a gender that is different than either male or female. Some people don't recognize with any gender. Some people's gender changes over time.

People whose gender is not male or female use many different terms to describe themselves, with nonbinary being one of the most common (sometimes spelled with a hyphen, as “non-binary”). Other terms include genderqueer, agender, bigender, genderfluid, and more. None of these terms signify exactly the same thing – but all express to an experience of gender that is not simply male or female. If you’re not sure what a word means, you canusually just demand politely.

Why “Nonbinary”?

Some societies – like ours – tend to recognize just two genders, male and female. The idea that there are only two genders is sometimes called a “gender binary,” because binary means “having two parts” (male and female). Th

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It’s easy to receive this confused, particularly because T is included in the LGBTQ+ acronym (T standing for “Transgender”). The key is to remember that transgender is referring to someone’s gender identity and not their sexuality orientation. Transgender people can be gay, linear, pansexual, queer, asexual, or any other sexual orientation (just like cisgender people!).

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Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Definitions

Sexual orientation

An inherent or immutable enduring emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to other people. Note: an individual’s sexual orientation is independent of their gender identity.

Gender identity

One's innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. One's gender identity can be the same or diverse from their sex assigned at birth.

Gender expression

External appearance of one's gender self, usually expressed through conduct, clothing, body characteristics or voice, and which may or may not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics typically linked with being either masculine or feminine.

Transgender

An umbrella word for people whose gender identity and/or expression is different from cultural expectations based on the sex they were assigned at birth. Being transgender does not imply any specific sexual orientation. Therefore, transsexual people may identify as straight, gay, lesbian, pansexual, etc.

Gender transition

The process by which some people compete to more closely align their intern

how to tell if a guy is gay or trans

How do I define my sexual orientation if I like a transgender man?

There are a lot of binary⁠ (Made up of two things or parts; a system with only two doable options or parts.) ideas and definitions happening in your questions. By that, I mean you’re viewing things as only having two possible options, when really there are more than that. Let’s tackle the question with the simplest answer first.

If you like a trans guy, then you like guys, because a gender non-conforming guy is a guy. How that fits into your sexual orientation⁠ (A term – fond homosexual, heterosexual, bi, queer, straight, dyke, gay, asexual – used to portray a person’s usual or current pattern of emotional, affectionate and/or sexual attraction to other people as it relates to or is about gender.) depends on who else you’re attracted to. If you recognize as bi, your feelings for him don’t have to change that, since attraction to men falls within the usual definition of bisexuality.

It’s not heterosexual⁠ (Someone who is only or mostly emotionally and sexually attracted to people of a different sex or gender than they are themselves.) to treat a trans guy as a guy. Heterosexuality is when someone is attracte