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Curious... I am a paraplegic crowned beauty queen (cis gender Female) who only likes ftm Men.. What do you men think and feel about that?
There’s quite a bit going on in this ask.
Most importantly, I can’t speak for all transmen. I’m sure if you asked this scrutinize to ten of us, you’d obtain ten different answers, maybe with some common points, but we are all going to respond from our possess experiences. So the best I can do is to give you my answer ...
I truly believe that people are attracted to specific attributes in others. Could be something physical about them, could be something about their personality, could be something about how they see the world, etcetra.
For instance, for me? I like athletic blonds. They will turn my brain and get my attention every second. But that’s just the initial phase. I also love people who are kind, who tell please and acknowledge you, who are genuine, who acquire a good perception of humor, and so forth. An utterly stunning, athletic blond who doesn’t exhibit those attributes will not hold my attention.
Moreover, I have had friendships with people who are not athletic blonds which develope
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Hi Kai,
I’m a gay trans guy in my 20s and I’ve been transitioning for five years. I’m really happy with my progress and have pretty much met all my transition goals. The only thing that still gives me dysphoria is how intimidated I get around cis men.
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