Recon gay.

The world will identify gay men as fashionistas. It will perceive us as tastemakers. As divas and drama queens; as artists and atheists. But when it comes to identifying us as beings with sexual desires, there is only radio silence.

‘What’s there to ask?’ the world would speak with a nervous giggle, ‘…what people do in bed is strictly their business.’ I’d ask the casual reader to obtain a moment to step back and laugh at the irony of this sentence because of what it might have meant in a pre-377 era.

The relationship between gay men and fetishes has been fetishised (for lack of a better word) as often as the bond between straight men and contact sports. ‘But aren’t you obsessed with experimenting in bed?’ the most basic of bigots would ask.

Well, funny you should ask. Say hello to Recon.

What it is: As the biggest gay fixation app, Recon is exclusively for men looking to hook-up with a kinky twist. It’s bold, brash and bratty – sort of like the Samantha Jones (from Sex and the City) of same-sex attracted dating apps. Recon doesn’t just talk about male lover sex; it defines queer sex. In fact, it dives right into the deep end of the pool